Your last class of the year has come and the new year is right around the corner. In our Dojo back in Japan I was asked to come and help clean up the Dojo to prepare it for the next year,I gladly accepted.
When I got to the Dojo there were students from other classes that I had not met before. It was nice meeting other students, some with same goals and others with different goals, yet we all had goals to fufill.
We begain with our seniors pointing out and directing us what to do.Some wiped down the weapon others cleaned the shelfs, windows, certificates hanging on the wall, Kami Dana, and floor.
When we were finished, we put up the equiptment , we had finished the final clean up of the year.
About that time Sato Sensei came into the Dojo, with him he had an dusty case of Kirin beer. He indicated to me that it was the Summer gift I had given him this year. He looked happy to see my surprised expression on learning that! Then Sensei offered us all a beer. We all took a beer and had a Kompai(cheers!) with Sensei, and we begain drinking the beer and talking about many things.
Now the Dojo was finally clean and ready for the classes for next year.Our spirit for training activated for the next round of training.
Saturday, December 25, 2010
Friday, November 26, 2010
AARUGHA or OOH-RAH ! Marines Spirited War Cry
The OOH-RAH , the spirited USA Marine war cry is used as a sign of enthusiasm and uplifting one self.
The origins, I read , come from the World War Two submarine diving Klaxon which made the sound AARUGHA just before if dove under the sea.
I have heard this OOH-RAH many times from one of my students who was once a marine. While attending my class,and after hearing me lecture, tell a story,or say something up lifting , the student would often say OOH-RAH in a low tone, as if to some be in agreemeant with what I said , or something like that. I guess the student felt inspired or moved.
Any way, for some reason, the student stopped coming to the class, and did not bother to let me know. I called the student ,but my call was not returned. I could not stop thinking why, after all the OOH-RAHS that I had heard from the student, I felt something was not right, so I called again , this time I succeeded.
I asked what was going on? Is something wrong?The student told me that there was not anything wrong and just wanted to take sometime off. I said O.K, but still I felt a little HOT and COLD about his attitude.
I have been teaching 17 years and when a student quits, they do not return.
Just with all the OOH-RAHing, and everything, I felt it to be very shallow in the end not to have enough OOH-RAH to let me know face to face that you were not going to be around OOH-RAHing for a while.
So what did all of the OOH-RAHing mean? If you really felt the way I do, and you agree with what I was saying, then why can't you apply the things I taught you that you OOH-RAHed about?
Do not talk the talk if you can not walk the walk!
The origins, I read , come from the World War Two submarine diving Klaxon which made the sound AARUGHA just before if dove under the sea.
I have heard this OOH-RAH many times from one of my students who was once a marine. While attending my class,and after hearing me lecture, tell a story,or say something up lifting , the student would often say OOH-RAH in a low tone, as if to some be in agreemeant with what I said , or something like that. I guess the student felt inspired or moved.
Any way, for some reason, the student stopped coming to the class, and did not bother to let me know. I called the student ,but my call was not returned. I could not stop thinking why, after all the OOH-RAHS that I had heard from the student, I felt something was not right, so I called again , this time I succeeded.
I asked what was going on? Is something wrong?The student told me that there was not anything wrong and just wanted to take sometime off. I said O.K, but still I felt a little HOT and COLD about his attitude.
I have been teaching 17 years and when a student quits, they do not return.
Just with all the OOH-RAHing, and everything, I felt it to be very shallow in the end not to have enough OOH-RAH to let me know face to face that you were not going to be around OOH-RAHing for a while.
So what did all of the OOH-RAHing mean? If you really felt the way I do, and you agree with what I was saying, then why can't you apply the things I taught you that you OOH-RAHed about?
Do not talk the talk if you can not walk the walk!
Monday, July 5, 2010
先生 Sensei
After I got permission to teach martial arts from my Sensei, I came back to my home town and opened a Dojo and began teaching. The students would ask me what they could call me. Some of them would ask me, shall we call you Sensei? , I could not accept being called Sensei, so I would tell them please call me Duke or Mr. Meade. Even though I had permission to teach, I felt that the word Sensei was too precious a title to be calling someone who does not have much teaching experience , as well as other character that comes with that title.
In Japan, when saying someone's name, you must put San at the end of it to show politeness, but when you put Sensei after someones name , you are indicating lots of respect, because only the most respected people are called Sensei. Lots of responsibility comes with that title!
Only now, after 17 years of teaching , Humbly, I can accept being called Sensei.
In Japan, when saying someone's name, you must put San at the end of it to show politeness, but when you put Sensei after someones name , you are indicating lots of respect, because only the most respected people are called Sensei. Lots of responsibility comes with that title!
Only now, after 17 years of teaching , Humbly, I can accept being called Sensei.
Monday, April 12, 2010
Every thing is Kata 形
When I begain learning Taichi, my Sensei would show me the form and then ask me to repeat it.I would try , but it was difficult to do. My legs would wobble from the pressure of trying to keep low and I would loose my balance and stumble. So at first it was very difficult to do, but more and more I could become to get it.
Learning the next form was a little easier then the first. This type of learning went on and on until I could do the entire routine by myself.
That was a mile stone I thought! I went from not being able to copy the movement well , until being able to complete the routine til the end .
Well I was not finished, I had just begun. The more I did the routine , the better the routine got to looking better and better. This is called polishing ones self. There is no seperation of Kata and self. You are the Kata.The more you try to make the Kata better, the better you become! The better the Kata the better you.
One of the most important things in learning Bujutsu is to try to make the Kata as perfect as you can, then you will have developed not only good Kata but through your hard efforts you will develope a power to make anything perfect. And this ability can be applied to every aspect of your life. Your marriage, occupation, school, friends,hobbies, children, every thing is Kata.
Learning the next form was a little easier then the first. This type of learning went on and on until I could do the entire routine by myself.
That was a mile stone I thought! I went from not being able to copy the movement well , until being able to complete the routine til the end .
Well I was not finished, I had just begun. The more I did the routine , the better the routine got to looking better and better. This is called polishing ones self. There is no seperation of Kata and self. You are the Kata.The more you try to make the Kata better, the better you become! The better the Kata the better you.
One of the most important things in learning Bujutsu is to try to make the Kata as perfect as you can, then you will have developed not only good Kata but through your hard efforts you will develope a power to make anything perfect. And this ability can be applied to every aspect of your life. Your marriage, occupation, school, friends,hobbies, children, every thing is Kata.
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Seven Principles to Live By
Gi : The right decision, taken with equanamity,the right attitude,the truth. When we must die, we must die. Rectitude.
Yu : Bravery,tinged with heroism.
Jin : Universal love, benevolence toward mankind; compassion
Rei : Right action a most assential quality. Courtesy.
Makoto : Utter sincerity.
Melyo : Honor and Glory
Chugo : Devotion, loyalty
Yu : Bravery,tinged with heroism.
Jin : Universal love, benevolence toward mankind; compassion
Rei : Right action a most assential quality. Courtesy.
Makoto : Utter sincerity.
Melyo : Honor and Glory
Chugo : Devotion, loyalty
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Mars the Roman God of War and MMA
Mars, the Roman God of war ,(fourth planet from the sun),shines with the color red resembling blood, very appropriate for the God of war.
He is characterized as a god who took savage delight in slaughter, and the hordes of slain upon the battlefield with fierce joy.
The word martial , pertaining to war came from Mars ,the god of war. A whole month of worship was given to him, the month of march, also coming from the word Mars.
My teacher , Sato Kimbei Sensei, once was asked by a news reporter what was martial arts for and what did he teach his students, he replied, ''殺し合い''! (Koroshi Ai )Skills to kill each other. I am sure the news reporter felt like he should have been given some long worded talk about the Martial Arts. Bye the way, they are not called martial arts in Japan, they are called Bujutsu 武術or HeiHo兵法. Bu, stopping spears, Jutsu, techniques. Hei , soldier, Ho, methods.
We learned many pertinent things that pertain to warfare, e.g., how to use a sword, how to use a staff, how to engage wearing armour, armoured fighting techniques etc.,I never felt I was studying a sport, I felt like I was training in the same spirit as a Bushi or a Samurai.
I do not go around calling myself a MMA fighter , because I am not. I have studied Chinese and Japanese martial arts but I do not appear in the UFC fighting tournaments. If someone wants to do that ,that is their choice and I do not care.
What I do care about is, that most people's assumption is that because they have studied Judo and Karate, Aikido, through in some boxing and wrestling then they are a martial artist. The word martial artist is more than what they represent. Martial arts is a western word, meaning war arts. If you are not studying war arts then that title should be for people who are and who have.
Maybe then Mixed War Arts Fighter?Mixed barehand skill fighrters?Prize Fighters Association?
MMWA, MBSF,PFA What is next, Mixed Samurai Artist? MSA
He is characterized as a god who took savage delight in slaughter, and the hordes of slain upon the battlefield with fierce joy.
The word martial , pertaining to war came from Mars ,the god of war. A whole month of worship was given to him, the month of march, also coming from the word Mars.
My teacher , Sato Kimbei Sensei, once was asked by a news reporter what was martial arts for and what did he teach his students, he replied, ''殺し合い''! (Koroshi Ai )Skills to kill each other. I am sure the news reporter felt like he should have been given some long worded talk about the Martial Arts. Bye the way, they are not called martial arts in Japan, they are called Bujutsu 武術or HeiHo兵法. Bu, stopping spears, Jutsu, techniques. Hei , soldier, Ho, methods.
We learned many pertinent things that pertain to warfare, e.g., how to use a sword, how to use a staff, how to engage wearing armour, armoured fighting techniques etc.,I never felt I was studying a sport, I felt like I was training in the same spirit as a Bushi or a Samurai.
I do not go around calling myself a MMA fighter , because I am not. I have studied Chinese and Japanese martial arts but I do not appear in the UFC fighting tournaments. If someone wants to do that ,that is their choice and I do not care.
What I do care about is, that most people's assumption is that because they have studied Judo and Karate, Aikido, through in some boxing and wrestling then they are a martial artist. The word martial artist is more than what they represent. Martial arts is a western word, meaning war arts. If you are not studying war arts then that title should be for people who are and who have.
Maybe then Mixed War Arts Fighter?Mixed barehand skill fighrters?Prize Fighters Association?
MMWA, MBSF,PFA What is next, Mixed Samurai Artist? MSA
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
Hanami 花見 Flower Viewing
Hanami 花見 Flower Viewing
I always look forward to the arrival of Spring. I love all of the young green sprouts and shoots. Watching the young sprigs develop into bigger leaves. Bulging flower blossoms on the stem of a tree or bush just pressing themselves to come out. Flowers pushing themselves out of the ground. Birds flying back in . Yeah it is a spectacular show!
While living in Japan, every year everyone looks forward to cherry blossom viewing. It is one of the most spectacular occasions of the year. There are lots of parties held under the blossoming cherry trees and many kinds of festivals held all over. Lots of fun!
After returning to the states , my heart ached to see those blossoms and to attend Hanami. I would drive down to Fort Valley Ga., the peach growing region and do Hanami with all of those peach blossoms trees there.
It is really beautiful, as you arrive closer to the fields you can smell those blossoms. Such a wonderful fragrance wafting through the air. The buzzing of bees is something else you can expect to hear.
After enjoying the beautiful scenery and a picnic lunch, it would be time to go home. While driving home I would watch the sun set and think about the earlier part of that day in the peach orchard field, what had seen and enjoyed. I would think about Japan and Hanami, Then I would think about it metaphorically, e.g., flowers are luminous and beautiful yet fleeting and ephemeral. Seasons are too the same, just like the transience of ones life.
It was said that a warrior’s life could be compared to the cherry blossom. His skill and character was very spectacular like a cherry blossom, and his life was short like a cherry blossom. Scattered blossoms symbolize a fallen samurai. My teacher Sato Kimbei said that a warriors liked the cherry blossom because it made them feel calm and neutral. I guess that is what I was feeling as I drove home.
Flowers symbolize many things in different ways depending on the country. For example, the Iris ; Iris is a Greek word for the goddess of the rainbow, which she used to travel to the earth with a message from the gods and to transport souls of women to the underworld. The three upright petals and the three drooping sepals are symbols of faith, valor and wisdom.
In Japan , the Iris leaf looks like a sword so it became a symbol for boys for there bravery.
The flower forget me not, originated from a man trying to get his lover some flowers at the edge of a cliff, and slipped and fell off. While falling he shouted ,”Don’t forget me!”
The wisteria and the pine tree, are seen as a bond of love between man and wife. Never separate.
A pine tree is an ever green, so it represents longevity.
Twin pine needles are also used in weddings to symbolize long life, however if one dies, so does the other.
Sometimes it is not the flower itself, but the name, e.g., Kake -win! For persimmon, or Take-strength for bamboo, Matsu-wait. For pine tree.
The Chrysanthemum flower was an imperial symbol for Japan. Blossom period is very long and its petal resembling the sun. The Japanese being the children of the sun.
No matter what nature symbolizes in one cultural or another, it teaches us many things. People have tried to describe, associate, explain, and compare some aspect of their lives using the flowers and other nature. Most people have only a superficial and commercial use of flowers and other nature. As for my self, I can only feel a strong bond between flowers and other nature, I am natural too.
We all can enjoy Hanami, anytime any where. but in spring there is an abundance of Hanami activity that takes place. So lets enjoy something that we all have in common, nature. Let it remind you of your transitory life, gentleness, impermanence,beauty,gracefulness , etc.,and because of that understanding , we all can appreciate and enjoy our lives more.
I always look forward to the arrival of Spring. I love all of the young green sprouts and shoots. Watching the young sprigs develop into bigger leaves. Bulging flower blossoms on the stem of a tree or bush just pressing themselves to come out. Flowers pushing themselves out of the ground. Birds flying back in . Yeah it is a spectacular show!
While living in Japan, every year everyone looks forward to cherry blossom viewing. It is one of the most spectacular occasions of the year. There are lots of parties held under the blossoming cherry trees and many kinds of festivals held all over. Lots of fun!
After returning to the states , my heart ached to see those blossoms and to attend Hanami. I would drive down to Fort Valley Ga., the peach growing region and do Hanami with all of those peach blossoms trees there.
It is really beautiful, as you arrive closer to the fields you can smell those blossoms. Such a wonderful fragrance wafting through the air. The buzzing of bees is something else you can expect to hear.
After enjoying the beautiful scenery and a picnic lunch, it would be time to go home. While driving home I would watch the sun set and think about the earlier part of that day in the peach orchard field, what had seen and enjoyed. I would think about Japan and Hanami, Then I would think about it metaphorically, e.g., flowers are luminous and beautiful yet fleeting and ephemeral. Seasons are too the same, just like the transience of ones life.
It was said that a warrior’s life could be compared to the cherry blossom. His skill and character was very spectacular like a cherry blossom, and his life was short like a cherry blossom. Scattered blossoms symbolize a fallen samurai. My teacher Sato Kimbei said that a warriors liked the cherry blossom because it made them feel calm and neutral. I guess that is what I was feeling as I drove home.
Flowers symbolize many things in different ways depending on the country. For example, the Iris ; Iris is a Greek word for the goddess of the rainbow, which she used to travel to the earth with a message from the gods and to transport souls of women to the underworld. The three upright petals and the three drooping sepals are symbols of faith, valor and wisdom.
In Japan , the Iris leaf looks like a sword so it became a symbol for boys for there bravery.
The flower forget me not, originated from a man trying to get his lover some flowers at the edge of a cliff, and slipped and fell off. While falling he shouted ,”Don’t forget me!”
The wisteria and the pine tree, are seen as a bond of love between man and wife. Never separate.
A pine tree is an ever green, so it represents longevity.
Twin pine needles are also used in weddings to symbolize long life, however if one dies, so does the other.
Sometimes it is not the flower itself, but the name, e.g., Kake -win! For persimmon, or Take-strength for bamboo, Matsu-wait. For pine tree.
The Chrysanthemum flower was an imperial symbol for Japan. Blossom period is very long and its petal resembling the sun. The Japanese being the children of the sun.
No matter what nature symbolizes in one cultural or another, it teaches us many things. People have tried to describe, associate, explain, and compare some aspect of their lives using the flowers and other nature. Most people have only a superficial and commercial use of flowers and other nature. As for my self, I can only feel a strong bond between flowers and other nature, I am natural too.
We all can enjoy Hanami, anytime any where. but in spring there is an abundance of Hanami activity that takes place. So lets enjoy something that we all have in common, nature. Let it remind you of your transitory life, gentleness, impermanence,beauty,gracefulness , etc.,and because of that understanding , we all can appreciate and enjoy our lives more.
Thursday, March 4, 2010
UFC and Hitting Below the Belt!
I new the UFC had rules but I did not know there were 31 of them. I would say more like 19 of them truly relate to physical fighting technique, e.g., striking certain areas and throwing over the ropes etc… I guess spitting on some one and cursing at someone are some of the rules that are not as physically lethal but
psychologically can lead to losing a fight, ya think? Oh, I guess that is unsportsmanlike conduct. Wow , I remember when no hitting below the belt was good enough.
My teacher once told me a story about a man that was caring something on each end of a pole and as he was transporting theses goods on his pole, he bumped into a man. When the man was bumped, he demanded an apology but the man with the pole did not apologize. This infuriated the man so he said to the man with the pole, “I am a Kendo master and I challenge you to a duel!” he took his bamboo sword out a and commenced to hit this man with the pole. The man with the pole slid his pole off the buckets that he was caring and struck the Kendo master in the shins very effectively. This devastated the Kendo Master and immediately put an end to his attacks. He lay on the ground in agony and said,” Hey, you can’t strike like that, it is against the rules of Kendo.” The man put his buckets back on his pole and walked off. As he was walking off, he said to the Kendo Master, “Kendo, I do not know anything about Kendo.” I was just trying to protect myself!
Kendo, is not a martial art that actually uses swords. The word , Ken does mean sword, but it is not a real sword , it is a Shinai made of bamboo. A real sword has weight and has a point, and is really sharp. The training using a real sword and the training using a bamboo sword are completely different.
There are also many types of cutting techniques, none which are included in Kendo. Also there are many ways to draw the sword, none which are employed in Kendo. My sensei use to say it should be called, Take Do, it means bamboo way.
The rules of Kendo are; no hitting in the back, no hitting in the legs, Ah.., where have I heard that from?, no throwing the sword, etc..
So, since the Kendo Master thought he was dueling someone else who understood the rules, he knew where he stood. But actually in real combat you are not going to have rules and will be lucky to know who, what, where ,when and how.
In old times when a Samurai had severely injured his opponent by cutting him with his sword, he purposely would go on and kill him off with a cut called , Kiri Oroshi. This cut was from the top his head to his belly button. This way of cutting insured that he would not have to live a life as a crippled man and have to be a burden .In some cases, he was let to take his on life instead if it being taken from him. Therefore he was given the opportunity to save face.
Were those rules or codes of ethics?
The only rule to fighting is there are no rules. When we look at sports martial arts and the martial arts , rules are the contradiction.
psychologically can lead to losing a fight, ya think? Oh, I guess that is unsportsmanlike conduct. Wow , I remember when no hitting below the belt was good enough.
My teacher once told me a story about a man that was caring something on each end of a pole and as he was transporting theses goods on his pole, he bumped into a man. When the man was bumped, he demanded an apology but the man with the pole did not apologize. This infuriated the man so he said to the man with the pole, “I am a Kendo master and I challenge you to a duel!” he took his bamboo sword out a and commenced to hit this man with the pole. The man with the pole slid his pole off the buckets that he was caring and struck the Kendo master in the shins very effectively. This devastated the Kendo Master and immediately put an end to his attacks. He lay on the ground in agony and said,” Hey, you can’t strike like that, it is against the rules of Kendo.” The man put his buckets back on his pole and walked off. As he was walking off, he said to the Kendo Master, “Kendo, I do not know anything about Kendo.” I was just trying to protect myself!
Kendo, is not a martial art that actually uses swords. The word , Ken does mean sword, but it is not a real sword , it is a Shinai made of bamboo. A real sword has weight and has a point, and is really sharp. The training using a real sword and the training using a bamboo sword are completely different.
There are also many types of cutting techniques, none which are included in Kendo. Also there are many ways to draw the sword, none which are employed in Kendo. My sensei use to say it should be called, Take Do, it means bamboo way.
The rules of Kendo are; no hitting in the back, no hitting in the legs, Ah.., where have I heard that from?, no throwing the sword, etc..
So, since the Kendo Master thought he was dueling someone else who understood the rules, he knew where he stood. But actually in real combat you are not going to have rules and will be lucky to know who, what, where ,when and how.
In old times when a Samurai had severely injured his opponent by cutting him with his sword, he purposely would go on and kill him off with a cut called , Kiri Oroshi. This cut was from the top his head to his belly button. This way of cutting insured that he would not have to live a life as a crippled man and have to be a burden .In some cases, he was let to take his on life instead if it being taken from him. Therefore he was given the opportunity to save face.
Were those rules or codes of ethics?
The only rule to fighting is there are no rules. When we look at sports martial arts and the martial arts , rules are the contradiction.
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
UFC and Mixed Martial Arts
I often get phone calls from people who have watched the MMA or UFC fights and they ask me if I teach that kind of stuff. I tell them no. But, actually I do teach a lot of hand to hand combat. A whole lot more than what they are going to find in a club that teaches that kind of stuff.
Like what kind of stuff are they learning? Well wrestling each other on the ground, how to box and some kicking. I am sure they train with weights and aerobic work outs etc..
Here at the Live Oak Dojo, I teach not only skills for the ring but skills that you need to have for every kind of situation. Also , every thing is not about fighting. If you only train your physical abilities, then what happens to you when you get old and do not have that physical strength? What then?
One of the best reasons for studying martial arts is that it is a discipline that makes you a better human. Self discipline of the highest level. I do not think training oneself to get into a ring or cage to win the fight has anything to do with making oneself a better human being. I think it steps backwards into being barbaric and uncivil.
The Martial Arts provide you the discipline to rise above the petty self and lets you be self less.
I do not like having to inflict pain and injury on someone in order to get respect and a sense of worthwhile self accomplishment.
The martial artist is a humble man whose fine manners and courtesy give him great dignity. This kind of skill unattainable in the mixed martial arts.
I think it is very misleading for them to be calling themselves martial artist.
Now days you can see men sporting shirts with MMA or UFC, but the worst one is definitely the Tap Out shirts.
The tap out was not used to give up a fight it was used in class to let your partner know that his technique was effective. As soon as you slapped the side of your own leg, he would let go. Now days this kind courtesy of respect and teaching tool has been lowered down to tap out or I will not let go! What a shameful way to behave to each other.
I have been studying martial arts for 28 years and I am still dedicated to making myself a better human being. Every time I step into my Dojo I am hoping to improve something about me or to one of my students.
Like what kind of stuff are they learning? Well wrestling each other on the ground, how to box and some kicking. I am sure they train with weights and aerobic work outs etc..
Here at the Live Oak Dojo, I teach not only skills for the ring but skills that you need to have for every kind of situation. Also , every thing is not about fighting. If you only train your physical abilities, then what happens to you when you get old and do not have that physical strength? What then?
One of the best reasons for studying martial arts is that it is a discipline that makes you a better human. Self discipline of the highest level. I do not think training oneself to get into a ring or cage to win the fight has anything to do with making oneself a better human being. I think it steps backwards into being barbaric and uncivil.
The Martial Arts provide you the discipline to rise above the petty self and lets you be self less.
I do not like having to inflict pain and injury on someone in order to get respect and a sense of worthwhile self accomplishment.
The martial artist is a humble man whose fine manners and courtesy give him great dignity. This kind of skill unattainable in the mixed martial arts.
I think it is very misleading for them to be calling themselves martial artist.
Now days you can see men sporting shirts with MMA or UFC, but the worst one is definitely the Tap Out shirts.
The tap out was not used to give up a fight it was used in class to let your partner know that his technique was effective. As soon as you slapped the side of your own leg, he would let go. Now days this kind courtesy of respect and teaching tool has been lowered down to tap out or I will not let go! What a shameful way to behave to each other.
I have been studying martial arts for 28 years and I am still dedicated to making myself a better human being. Every time I step into my Dojo I am hoping to improve something about me or to one of my students.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
Laughable Determination
After discharging from the Navy in 1983 I decided to stay in Japan and live with my wife who was Japanese.
Just to stay in Japan you have to apply for a visa. In my case I needed a residential visa. To apply , you must have a doctors report on the condition of your health. You can not have STDs or any other type of contagious diseases. Next, a letter of guarantee from a Japanese. This person must vouch for you and be held responsible that you abide and obey all the rules and customs of Japan. Then you must have proof of a job unless you are applying for a school visa.
After that, you will need proof that you have enough money that in the event you are deported you can purchase your own ticket. And lastly, you will need to provide them with a written statement of why you want to be in Japan and why it will be of benefit to their country.
Finally , you will have to sit down and have an interview and go over all of your documentation. It has to be current. Then if you pass the interview, you will need to purchase the visa. It is expensive. One more thing, you will have to travel to this office . Depending on where you are living in Japan , it could be far so you will need to check into a hotel.
And the above process has to be repeated every time you apply. In my case it was every year for the first three years and every three years after that!
Being a foreigner in Japan is not easy. Think of all the things you won’t be able to do because you can not read? For example, withdrawing money from an ATM. Going to the library and checking out a book. Mailing a package, etc. Every thing is written in Chinese and Japanese Characters. So you have to have some one who is willing to help you out, a lot !
What about food? There are many kinds of dishes that you have never seen or know how to eat them.
My first apartment was a duplex. Basically it was a room with a small sink in the end with a small closet to the right. There was a two burner stove with a built in broiler. The hall in front had a toilet and small sink that I shared with the other tenant living next door. For a bath , you have to go to the local bath house.Women on one side and men on the other. Could not see each other, just hear little. It was very embarrassing to be the only foreigner amongst all of those Japanese men. The first time it was hard, but after a few times I fit right in.
Before entering a bath house , one take off his shoes and puts them in a cubby hole like shelf, normally there is a wooden key. Then slide the door open and step in. There is normally a huge 6 or 7 foot counter where someone takes you money , about $1.50. Then there are baskets provided for putting your close in after taking them off. This place is separate from the bath house. The only thing separating it from the bathing room is a glass wall which is kind of steamed up. So after getting naked, you open the sliding door and walk in. As soon as you open the door every body looks your way. That is the fun part. So you grab a bucket and a wooden stool and go to the wall , there you will find many hot and cold faucets running along at the bottom of the wall. You take a seat down and start washing. You will of course brought your shaving stuff, a wash cloth and soap. There is also a small mirror that runs all the way down the wall above the faucets so you can see what you are doing. After washing, you fill up your bucket and rinse off several times. Now you are ready for the bath. The bath is very big like a pool except it has a wall around it so you can sit on it and dangle your legs into the water so they can get use to the extremely hot water. The pool is deep enough so that you can sink up over you shoulders.There are many men in there together. Any way, it does take some getting use to going to these bath houses.
Speaking the language is difficult. When speaking to someone that you respect, like teacher or employer, you must use humble language when referring to oneself and very polite language for the respected one.
Japanese is very difficult to listen to.
In short you will need to go to school to learn Japanese.
The first time that I saw Taichi was in Yokohama China town. I was walking to work and in the park I saw some people in a group moving kind of slow all synchronized . I thought it looked kind of kool . When I went into the office I asked some of the staff what was it . They told me it was Taichi. I wanted to take a class so I found out where there club was and went there to join. The club was located in China Town next to a Buddhist temple. My Japanese was embarrassing to say the least, but I was bent on joining so I memorized what to say. It went like this, ‘’My name is Duke , I am from America, May I join your Club? ‘’ Yes, she said. Then I asked her about the tuition, and she told me. I payed her and I went home.Wow, I was glad she did not ask me a bunch of questions, cause I was nervous.I did not understand a lot of what she said.
The classes were held twice a week. I took the morning classes. Mostly middle age women and men during the week, but more of a mix on Sats.
It was awkward , I thought I was in shape but I realized how out of shape I was. I had to get instructed in Japanese. For example,Yubi ga saki, fingers first, koshi wo urumete, relax your waiste, hiza ga ashi no sumia saki knee to the toes, etc. confusing.
The first forms that I masterd was the 24 form simplified Taich. I was shown one form at a time and had to do it until I could memorize it. Then came the next form and the next, until I could string it all along and do it without stopping.I eventually mastered the 48, and 66 Taichi forms.
My sensei did not teach how to use the forms. I could do the forms but I had no idea what they meant. Sometimes I would find books at the library or book store show certain throws and attacks using Taichi. So I became curious why I was not being taught that. Well I decided to go look at other Taichi schools. To my dismay they were all the same.I was about to give up when I found a school in north Tokyo that was teaching how to use it. I went for a visit and found out they were teaching the applications of Taichi and much more.
I joined this school and after six weeks I could finally make some sense out of what I had been learning for six years at the other school. I really felt that I had wasted my time.
Anyway , can not change the past, just try not to repeat it.
The old school was more of a Taichi exercise club . You see Taichi was never intended to be only an exercise to just keep you mentally and physically healthy. It is a martial art! Yes, Yes it keeps you fit. Not arguing with that, but it is suppose to develop martial art skills. Not just some yoga.
The school in Itabashi Tokyo was more martial than club atmosphere.
It was tough. I started out taking Taichi and Yawara,yawara is another word for Jujutsu. Later on I stared taking Paqua. Paqua is a form of Chinese pugilism. The fee for one class was $7000 yen, if you took more than one style the fee was reduced 1000 yen , so my monthly total was 19000 yen
About $200.00 a month. Plus train feee. I had to take three different trains to get there all the way from Yokohama. Travel fee was about $30.00 round trip.It took about an hour and a half.
Sometimes someone will call here and ask if I teach kick boxing or mixed martial arts, I tell them no but they might find it in Atlanta. They normally say it is too far. After all that I went through to learn martial arts, I find it laughable! Firstly, even if you found something near as authentic as in it’s mother land in the USA it would be almost a miracle. And if you did and you can not muster up the spirit to go as far as Columbus to Atlanta to get it, then you are definitely not going to be able to become a fighter. Much less a champion in that sport.
You have to work hard. It may cost lots of money, travel far, and be a foreigner amongst them and speak their language. What ever it takes, that is what you will have to do if you want to achieve your goal.
Just to stay in Japan you have to apply for a visa. In my case I needed a residential visa. To apply , you must have a doctors report on the condition of your health. You can not have STDs or any other type of contagious diseases. Next, a letter of guarantee from a Japanese. This person must vouch for you and be held responsible that you abide and obey all the rules and customs of Japan. Then you must have proof of a job unless you are applying for a school visa.
After that, you will need proof that you have enough money that in the event you are deported you can purchase your own ticket. And lastly, you will need to provide them with a written statement of why you want to be in Japan and why it will be of benefit to their country.
Finally , you will have to sit down and have an interview and go over all of your documentation. It has to be current. Then if you pass the interview, you will need to purchase the visa. It is expensive. One more thing, you will have to travel to this office . Depending on where you are living in Japan , it could be far so you will need to check into a hotel.
And the above process has to be repeated every time you apply. In my case it was every year for the first three years and every three years after that!
Being a foreigner in Japan is not easy. Think of all the things you won’t be able to do because you can not read? For example, withdrawing money from an ATM. Going to the library and checking out a book. Mailing a package, etc. Every thing is written in Chinese and Japanese Characters. So you have to have some one who is willing to help you out, a lot !
What about food? There are many kinds of dishes that you have never seen or know how to eat them.
My first apartment was a duplex. Basically it was a room with a small sink in the end with a small closet to the right. There was a two burner stove with a built in broiler. The hall in front had a toilet and small sink that I shared with the other tenant living next door. For a bath , you have to go to the local bath house.Women on one side and men on the other. Could not see each other, just hear little. It was very embarrassing to be the only foreigner amongst all of those Japanese men. The first time it was hard, but after a few times I fit right in.
Before entering a bath house , one take off his shoes and puts them in a cubby hole like shelf, normally there is a wooden key. Then slide the door open and step in. There is normally a huge 6 or 7 foot counter where someone takes you money , about $1.50. Then there are baskets provided for putting your close in after taking them off. This place is separate from the bath house. The only thing separating it from the bathing room is a glass wall which is kind of steamed up. So after getting naked, you open the sliding door and walk in. As soon as you open the door every body looks your way. That is the fun part. So you grab a bucket and a wooden stool and go to the wall , there you will find many hot and cold faucets running along at the bottom of the wall. You take a seat down and start washing. You will of course brought your shaving stuff, a wash cloth and soap. There is also a small mirror that runs all the way down the wall above the faucets so you can see what you are doing. After washing, you fill up your bucket and rinse off several times. Now you are ready for the bath. The bath is very big like a pool except it has a wall around it so you can sit on it and dangle your legs into the water so they can get use to the extremely hot water. The pool is deep enough so that you can sink up over you shoulders.There are many men in there together. Any way, it does take some getting use to going to these bath houses.
Speaking the language is difficult. When speaking to someone that you respect, like teacher or employer, you must use humble language when referring to oneself and very polite language for the respected one.
Japanese is very difficult to listen to.
In short you will need to go to school to learn Japanese.
The first time that I saw Taichi was in Yokohama China town. I was walking to work and in the park I saw some people in a group moving kind of slow all synchronized . I thought it looked kind of kool . When I went into the office I asked some of the staff what was it . They told me it was Taichi. I wanted to take a class so I found out where there club was and went there to join. The club was located in China Town next to a Buddhist temple. My Japanese was embarrassing to say the least, but I was bent on joining so I memorized what to say. It went like this, ‘’My name is Duke , I am from America, May I join your Club? ‘’ Yes, she said. Then I asked her about the tuition, and she told me. I payed her and I went home.Wow, I was glad she did not ask me a bunch of questions, cause I was nervous.I did not understand a lot of what she said.
The classes were held twice a week. I took the morning classes. Mostly middle age women and men during the week, but more of a mix on Sats.
It was awkward , I thought I was in shape but I realized how out of shape I was. I had to get instructed in Japanese. For example,Yubi ga saki, fingers first, koshi wo urumete, relax your waiste, hiza ga ashi no sumia saki knee to the toes, etc. confusing.
The first forms that I masterd was the 24 form simplified Taich. I was shown one form at a time and had to do it until I could memorize it. Then came the next form and the next, until I could string it all along and do it without stopping.I eventually mastered the 48, and 66 Taichi forms.
My sensei did not teach how to use the forms. I could do the forms but I had no idea what they meant. Sometimes I would find books at the library or book store show certain throws and attacks using Taichi. So I became curious why I was not being taught that. Well I decided to go look at other Taichi schools. To my dismay they were all the same.I was about to give up when I found a school in north Tokyo that was teaching how to use it. I went for a visit and found out they were teaching the applications of Taichi and much more.
I joined this school and after six weeks I could finally make some sense out of what I had been learning for six years at the other school. I really felt that I had wasted my time.
Anyway , can not change the past, just try not to repeat it.
The old school was more of a Taichi exercise club . You see Taichi was never intended to be only an exercise to just keep you mentally and physically healthy. It is a martial art! Yes, Yes it keeps you fit. Not arguing with that, but it is suppose to develop martial art skills. Not just some yoga.
The school in Itabashi Tokyo was more martial than club atmosphere.
It was tough. I started out taking Taichi and Yawara,yawara is another word for Jujutsu. Later on I stared taking Paqua. Paqua is a form of Chinese pugilism. The fee for one class was $7000 yen, if you took more than one style the fee was reduced 1000 yen , so my monthly total was 19000 yen
About $200.00 a month. Plus train feee. I had to take three different trains to get there all the way from Yokohama. Travel fee was about $30.00 round trip.It took about an hour and a half.
Sometimes someone will call here and ask if I teach kick boxing or mixed martial arts, I tell them no but they might find it in Atlanta. They normally say it is too far. After all that I went through to learn martial arts, I find it laughable! Firstly, even if you found something near as authentic as in it’s mother land in the USA it would be almost a miracle. And if you did and you can not muster up the spirit to go as far as Columbus to Atlanta to get it, then you are definitely not going to be able to become a fighter. Much less a champion in that sport.
You have to work hard. It may cost lots of money, travel far, and be a foreigner amongst them and speak their language. What ever it takes, that is what you will have to do if you want to achieve your goal.
Friday, February 26, 2010
武士に二言は無し
Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi!
Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi! Translation: For a Warrior there are not two words!
Once a warrior gives his word or says something he is going to do, he keeps his word.
So many times I have been told by someone that they were going to do something for me or going to give me something etc., but they did not keep their promise. I dislike that kind of attitude. I remember one of the first cultural shocks that I received when I first returned to the USA. Someone told me that they were going to call me later that evening. So I waited in anticipation, but I never received a call from them. Wow! I thought something had terribly gone wrong. That would have never happened in Japan. If you tell someone you are going to do something for them or for yourself etc., no matter how big or small, you must keep your word! It is as simple as that. If not, do not open your mouth about it. Also, in Japan people would feel sorry that they belabored your considerations and your feelings. Or the pride that they have for themselves not to be seen as that type of person that lacks in consideration and is lazy.
Later own I ran into that person who told me they were going to call me. I said, “What happened, you were suppose to call me the other night, is every thing alright?” This person said, “Oh I know, but something came up and I forgot all about it. Sorry.” If the person knows now that they were suppose to call you and they did not. Then why didn’t they call when they did remember? I guess when they remembered they felt like, oh well he will know. I think that is a very lazy and inconsiderate way to behave.
So many times I surprise my customers with this considerate attitude, it really helps my relation with them which keeps business rolling in. If I tell them I’ll be there at 9:00a.m, I’ll be there on time. If I tell them I can not or do not want the job, they appreciate my honesty and they know where they stand. No surprises.
As for code, if a warrior drew his sword and did not use it, he was punished. Therefore, before he pulled it out of his sheath he had to think very clearly and carefully when deciding what to do. He knew the rules.
As a trained man you must make an effort to train your word. There should not be excuses because of this, and I know I was going to but, blah, blah, blah. That is second words. Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi!
Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi!
Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi! Translation: For a Warrior there are not two words!
Once a warrior gives his word or says something he is going to do, he keeps his word.
So many times I have been told by someone that they were going to do something for me or going to give me something etc., but they did not keep their promise. I dislike that kind of attitude. I remember one of the first cultural shocks that I received when I first returned to the USA. Someone told me that they were going to call me later that evening. So I waited in anticipation, but I never received a call from them. Wow! I thought something had terribly gone wrong. That would have never happened in Japan. If you tell someone you are going to do something for them or for yourself etc., no matter how big or small, you must keep your word! It is as simple as that. If not, do not open your mouth about it. Also, in Japan people would feel sorry that they belabored your considerations and your feelings. Or the pride that they have for themselves not to be seen as that type of person that lacks in consideration and is lazy.
Later own I ran into that person who told me they were going to call me. I said, “What happened, you were suppose to call me the other night, is every thing alright?” This person said, “Oh I know, but something came up and I forgot all about it. Sorry.” If the person knows now that they were suppose to call you and they did not. Then why didn’t they call when they did remember? I guess when they remembered they felt like, oh well he will know. I think that is a very lazy and inconsiderate way to behave.
So many times I surprise my customers with this considerate attitude, it really helps my relation with them which keeps business rolling in. If I tell them I’ll be there at 9:00a.m, I’ll be there on time. If I tell them I can not or do not want the job, they appreciate my honesty and they know where they stand. No surprises.
As for code, if a warrior drew his sword and did not use it, he was punished. Therefore, before he pulled it out of his sheath he had to think very clearly and carefully when deciding what to do. He knew the rules.
As a trained man you must make an effort to train your word. There should not be excuses because of this, and I know I was going to but, blah, blah, blah. That is second words. Bushi Ni nigon WA nashi!
Friday, February 12, 2010
Kaho ?? (Fake Martial Arts and Artist)
Kaho 花法 KaHo is two Chinese characters that mean flower and method.
About KaHo
In times of continued peace martial arts become very far from what they were intended to be used for and become more for looks and sports. The ancestors of these martial arts called them Ka Ho, meaning flower methods.
Kaebara Ekiken was very knowledgeable and was the author of many books .One of the books he wrote was about the code for Bushi. Bushi is Japanese for warrior.
He said that if you were a master and intended to employee a samurai , there were 5 types of Bushi you should not employ.
1. The rich spoiled type who runs all around town playing and living it up
2. The kind which collects up beautiful swords and things for their looks and not for really using.
3. The kind who are too old and weak
4. Talking too big and lying about their experiences but actually have not done anything.
5. Has lots of knowledge and interesting to talk too but just lack courage
Another author said ,People who just want to get the compliments from other people distort their technique to get praise like a Kabuki actors trying to get applause from the audience. But their technique looks so obviously in effective.Kabuki is Japanese for Theater.
Takeda Shingen’s warrior BaBa Miyoshi no Mori Nobusa said , “This technique and that technique is o.k but, the most important thing is to just have the attitude to just go to the battle field chase and knock them down and just cut their heads off.That is what he said and that is what he did.Takeda Shingen was a land owner and was very famous for his many war victories.
At the end of the Edo period 1603-1658 a famous swordsman, Gyozo Hirayama,said swordery is for killing enemies so you must make your enemy feel like you really want to kill them. They must feel your deep desire to kill them.
He also said when you dodge the enemies attack and just let it go it is not very useful exercise.
In China at the end of the Ming Dynasty 1368-1616 they talked about Ka Ho.
They were two types of martial arts Outside and Inside.
The outside is mainly attacking by jumping up high and kicking or just striking with your limbs. More active than being passive. And when being in this mode your are more likely to be injured because you expose your vital points when kicking. Also your ability to hit the target is not as good when you are closer to the target.
The inside is more for protecting your self when being attacked , the counter is more effective and accurate because you are closer when the attacker exposes his vitals when he is attacking you.
Shaolin martial art s looks very beautiful , but it is too big and open, so it is easy to attack their vitals. That is why inside martial arts is better than outside.
Chin Pan ling was born 1892 -1967. He studied Shaolin Kung Fu from his father . While he was studying at a university he met a guy there who had studied Hsing-I for only 6 months when they faught Chen Pan ling was hit only one time and lost. He realized how in effective Shaolin was and so he started learning inside martial arts and in the end became the head of the martial arts federation in China. After the revolution he exiled to Tapai Taiwan and started his martial art federation there.
About Japanese swords, It was said to be the soul of the Samurai. Up until the 16th century swords were not so extravagant they worked well in the field but were not so special. Around the 17th century the focus on the weapon was on its beatification of the sword valued for it's beauty, but actually they bent easily and were not so effective. So at the end of the Edo period a famous sword maker, Masahire collected what was called meito best swords and purposely broke them with a hammer to show how weak they were made.He told the warriors that the main purpose for the sword was it should not break, and could stay sharp and how well they cut, not how they look. So there was even KaHo going on with swords.
My teacher once asked Japanese actors who played swordsmen in the movies and so on if thy were real masters but they said no. When the Chinese actors of Kungfu movies were asked if theymasters they all said yes.He thought that they were not lying but just they thought they really new martial arts ,In other words they thought Kaho was real martial arts.
My sensei studied Kageyama ryu kenjutsu from Miyazaki unshu. After studying with him receiving credentials from him he told me not to show martial arts to anyone without his permission. Especially before you even master anything you will become influenced by the audience you will become louder and bigger etc And the art that you learned will become something else and so will you.
About KaHo
In times of continued peace martial arts become very far from what they were intended to be used for and become more for looks and sports. The ancestors of these martial arts called them Ka Ho, meaning flower methods.
Kaebara Ekiken was very knowledgeable and was the author of many books .One of the books he wrote was about the code for Bushi. Bushi is Japanese for warrior.
He said that if you were a master and intended to employee a samurai , there were 5 types of Bushi you should not employ.
1. The rich spoiled type who runs all around town playing and living it up
2. The kind which collects up beautiful swords and things for their looks and not for really using.
3. The kind who are too old and weak
4. Talking too big and lying about their experiences but actually have not done anything.
5. Has lots of knowledge and interesting to talk too but just lack courage
Another author said ,People who just want to get the compliments from other people distort their technique to get praise like a Kabuki actors trying to get applause from the audience. But their technique looks so obviously in effective.Kabuki is Japanese for Theater.
Takeda Shingen’s warrior BaBa Miyoshi no Mori Nobusa said , “This technique and that technique is o.k but, the most important thing is to just have the attitude to just go to the battle field chase and knock them down and just cut their heads off.That is what he said and that is what he did.Takeda Shingen was a land owner and was very famous for his many war victories.
At the end of the Edo period 1603-1658 a famous swordsman, Gyozo Hirayama,said swordery is for killing enemies so you must make your enemy feel like you really want to kill them. They must feel your deep desire to kill them.
He also said when you dodge the enemies attack and just let it go it is not very useful exercise.
In China at the end of the Ming Dynasty 1368-1616 they talked about Ka Ho.
They were two types of martial arts Outside and Inside.
The outside is mainly attacking by jumping up high and kicking or just striking with your limbs. More active than being passive. And when being in this mode your are more likely to be injured because you expose your vital points when kicking. Also your ability to hit the target is not as good when you are closer to the target.
The inside is more for protecting your self when being attacked , the counter is more effective and accurate because you are closer when the attacker exposes his vitals when he is attacking you.
Shaolin martial art s looks very beautiful , but it is too big and open, so it is easy to attack their vitals. That is why inside martial arts is better than outside.
Chin Pan ling was born 1892 -1967. He studied Shaolin Kung Fu from his father . While he was studying at a university he met a guy there who had studied Hsing-I for only 6 months when they faught Chen Pan ling was hit only one time and lost. He realized how in effective Shaolin was and so he started learning inside martial arts and in the end became the head of the martial arts federation in China. After the revolution he exiled to Tapai Taiwan and started his martial art federation there.
About Japanese swords, It was said to be the soul of the Samurai. Up until the 16th century swords were not so extravagant they worked well in the field but were not so special. Around the 17th century the focus on the weapon was on its beatification of the sword valued for it's beauty, but actually they bent easily and were not so effective. So at the end of the Edo period a famous sword maker, Masahire collected what was called meito best swords and purposely broke them with a hammer to show how weak they were made.He told the warriors that the main purpose for the sword was it should not break, and could stay sharp and how well they cut, not how they look. So there was even KaHo going on with swords.
My teacher once asked Japanese actors who played swordsmen in the movies and so on if thy were real masters but they said no. When the Chinese actors of Kungfu movies were asked if theymasters they all said yes.He thought that they were not lying but just they thought they really new martial arts ,In other words they thought Kaho was real martial arts.
My sensei studied Kageyama ryu kenjutsu from Miyazaki unshu. After studying with him receiving credentials from him he told me not to show martial arts to anyone without his permission. Especially before you even master anything you will become influenced by the audience you will become louder and bigger etc And the art that you learned will become something else and so will you.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
How to visit a Dojo
After the very last class of the year, the Dojo will be cleaned to get ready for the next year.
One day after class , my teacher Sato sensei asked me to come and help clean up the Dojo with some of the other students from the other classes. So I did.
We all showed up early that Sunday morning and began cleaning up. Some of us dusted . some wiped and some swept, we each had a job .
My job was getting the Cob webs off the wall and around some the plaques and awards and things. I had not been a student very long and had never been to a Dojo year end cleaning , so I was not sure about this type of custom.
As I began dusting , I finally came to a place in the Dojo that we always faced when we bowed in.
It is called a Kami Dana. I did not know much about the Kami Dana at that time , but shortly I was going to learn how important it was to one of my seniors, his name was Tamura san.
The Kami Dana had a long wall scroll with the words Amatarasu no Okami written on it. There were also a couple of white vases on each side of the scroll with sasaki leaves in them.
In the front middle of the scroll there were two white bottles with lids on top. To each far end of the dana there were to Shi Shi, one on each side. Also some candle holders were there towards the front center.
As I took the broom to the Kami Dana and began swiping the scroll upper top for cob webs, my senior Tamura san, suddenly approached and grabbed the broom from my hand and said strongly,
"What the hell are you doing, wiping this precious scroll with this nasty broom? You should have more respect for this Kami Dana! Well, I was shocked that things suddenly went sour. Wow, I did not see that coming. Until now I had never been scolded by my Senior and I really did not understand why , but I knew he felt something about this Kami dana so I quickly I bowed very deeply and apologized . I said Sumimasen, Shitsurei shimashita Gomennasai.
After the scolding , we all started cleaning the floor. Then we rinsed out our rags and hung them up to dry and stowed our brooms and things. We were finish.
Suddenly, Sato sensei came into the room he had case of beer.Sensei said he had been saving the case that I had given him last summer for his summer gift. I remembered. That is right I did give him a case. I never expected to see that case again. What pleasant surprise! It is a custom to give your boss, teacher, or some other respected person at least two gifts a year. One in the Summer (Chugen)and one in the winter (Seibo).So we all had a couple of beers and talked. Afterwards we walked together to the train station and then went our separate ways.
So how do you visit a Dojo? Well please understand that the Dojo is not just a gym, it is more than that.
After you train at a Dojo you will become more appreciative of all the things it will do for you. Therefore you will gain genuine respect for it.
In the beginning , when you first visit a Dojo it will not mean much too you, but to others in the class this Dojo is a sacred placed. It will matter to them how you conduct your self in their house of respect. So visit respectfully.
Also, respect their teacher, he is the one who leads them on their journey. Be careful how you talk to him.
At first like I said this will seem all superficial to you, but it will not be to them. The Dai La LAma said,
do not forget the three R's, respect yourself, respect others , and be responsible for all your actions. This is a good rule to follow not only in visiting a Dojo ,but through your whole life
It is good to know what you want to study and who the person is that you want to study from before you go.
Do not go there and waste their time asking things that you can Google for.I have had many people call me and ask how much is it? what do you teach? etc . Before I was a student , I saw something I liked, I asked my office staff what it was, I found out where the school was located, I went there and discussed the terms , I joined.
When I met my second teacher, I called his office, I asked the reception/his wife if he taught how to use Taichi, she said yes, I found out what times, I went , I joined.
So in the first case I saw Taichi, it looked cool, I wanted to learn it. In the second case, I wanted to learn how to use Taichi, he taught how,I joined.
If you have trained some where else before, then it is a good thing to bring the teacher of the new school some small gift like a bottle of sake , or box of cookies,etc.. This will show that you had a good teacher before and will gain respect for your former school. It is always good to make a good impression for you and your former school
What ever you do do not show up late for a visit. If you call a teacher and ask to come visit and do not show up, then that is totally disrespectful. Coming late is also disrespectful.
Oh yea , one last thing. Do not come and start telling the teacher all about what you know. He is going to find out when you start training. You can bet your life own it .
Have a nice visit.
One day after class , my teacher Sato sensei asked me to come and help clean up the Dojo with some of the other students from the other classes. So I did.
We all showed up early that Sunday morning and began cleaning up. Some of us dusted . some wiped and some swept, we each had a job .
My job was getting the Cob webs off the wall and around some the plaques and awards and things. I had not been a student very long and had never been to a Dojo year end cleaning , so I was not sure about this type of custom.
As I began dusting , I finally came to a place in the Dojo that we always faced when we bowed in.
It is called a Kami Dana. I did not know much about the Kami Dana at that time , but shortly I was going to learn how important it was to one of my seniors, his name was Tamura san.
The Kami Dana had a long wall scroll with the words Amatarasu no Okami written on it. There were also a couple of white vases on each side of the scroll with sasaki leaves in them.
In the front middle of the scroll there were two white bottles with lids on top. To each far end of the dana there were to Shi Shi, one on each side. Also some candle holders were there towards the front center.
As I took the broom to the Kami Dana and began swiping the scroll upper top for cob webs, my senior Tamura san, suddenly approached and grabbed the broom from my hand and said strongly,
"What the hell are you doing, wiping this precious scroll with this nasty broom? You should have more respect for this Kami Dana! Well, I was shocked that things suddenly went sour. Wow, I did not see that coming. Until now I had never been scolded by my Senior and I really did not understand why , but I knew he felt something about this Kami dana so I quickly I bowed very deeply and apologized . I said Sumimasen, Shitsurei shimashita Gomennasai.
After the scolding , we all started cleaning the floor. Then we rinsed out our rags and hung them up to dry and stowed our brooms and things. We were finish.
Suddenly, Sato sensei came into the room he had case of beer.Sensei said he had been saving the case that I had given him last summer for his summer gift. I remembered. That is right I did give him a case. I never expected to see that case again. What pleasant surprise! It is a custom to give your boss, teacher, or some other respected person at least two gifts a year. One in the Summer (Chugen)and one in the winter (Seibo).So we all had a couple of beers and talked. Afterwards we walked together to the train station and then went our separate ways.
So how do you visit a Dojo? Well please understand that the Dojo is not just a gym, it is more than that.
After you train at a Dojo you will become more appreciative of all the things it will do for you. Therefore you will gain genuine respect for it.
In the beginning , when you first visit a Dojo it will not mean much too you, but to others in the class this Dojo is a sacred placed. It will matter to them how you conduct your self in their house of respect. So visit respectfully.
Also, respect their teacher, he is the one who leads them on their journey. Be careful how you talk to him.
At first like I said this will seem all superficial to you, but it will not be to them. The Dai La LAma said,
do not forget the three R's, respect yourself, respect others , and be responsible for all your actions. This is a good rule to follow not only in visiting a Dojo ,but through your whole life
It is good to know what you want to study and who the person is that you want to study from before you go.
Do not go there and waste their time asking things that you can Google for.I have had many people call me and ask how much is it? what do you teach? etc . Before I was a student , I saw something I liked, I asked my office staff what it was, I found out where the school was located, I went there and discussed the terms , I joined.
When I met my second teacher, I called his office, I asked the reception/his wife if he taught how to use Taichi, she said yes, I found out what times, I went , I joined.
So in the first case I saw Taichi, it looked cool, I wanted to learn it. In the second case, I wanted to learn how to use Taichi, he taught how,I joined.
If you have trained some where else before, then it is a good thing to bring the teacher of the new school some small gift like a bottle of sake , or box of cookies,etc.. This will show that you had a good teacher before and will gain respect for your former school. It is always good to make a good impression for you and your former school
What ever you do do not show up late for a visit. If you call a teacher and ask to come visit and do not show up, then that is totally disrespectful. Coming late is also disrespectful.
Oh yea , one last thing. Do not come and start telling the teacher all about what you know. He is going to find out when you start training. You can bet your life own it .
Have a nice visit.
Monday, February 1, 2010
Is your martial arts training working for you?
One of the reasons that I keep teaching martial arts is because of all of the benefits that I have received from my training. What benefits?Well the most apparent would be self defense and health.
Lets take a look at self defense. Are you sure that you can handle yourself?This one is a must. You have to be very honest with your self and your self defense tools and be sure that it really will work for you. Test it and make sure. You would not want to hunt bear with a rifle that did not work, right? I do not want to waste my time learning something that does not work well.Nor do I want to teach something that does not work well. This is martial art pride.
Lets look at health. How do you feel about these so called martial art instructors that look obese and out of shape , and yet they have no shame in sporting that worn out black belt! Good gosh!
That should be a dead give away that their Martial arts training is not working for them. Say what? That is right ! What happened to all this discipline they told you about. You see,the ability to use your discipline is one of the biggest benefits of martial arts training. Conquering yourself and not giving in to your superficial wants and desires is what happens when you apply your martial art training. How? Well the same way that you had been trying to achieve executing the most effective throw until you could do it . That's how! Willing it to happen until you could make it happen.
The focus that it takes, attention, the dedication, coordination, perseverance and week after week you were at the Dojo applying all of that. This mindfulness is a direct by product of all that hard work. So the same way that you approach your techniques is the same way you should approach all of the things that you are involved with. Especially your health. It is the source of everything you are!
It is a shame to see students that have been in a dojo for a while and are very good at technique, but do not apply their skill in other areas in their lives. Your discipline is your strength, especially as your body gets old and can no longer do good technique. When you get older is when you must rely the most on your martial art training. Focus, patience, perseverance, attitude, etc. You are going to need those skills. So take a look at your training and be honest, is it working for you?
Lets take a look at self defense. Are you sure that you can handle yourself?This one is a must. You have to be very honest with your self and your self defense tools and be sure that it really will work for you. Test it and make sure. You would not want to hunt bear with a rifle that did not work, right? I do not want to waste my time learning something that does not work well.Nor do I want to teach something that does not work well. This is martial art pride.
Lets look at health. How do you feel about these so called martial art instructors that look obese and out of shape , and yet they have no shame in sporting that worn out black belt! Good gosh!
That should be a dead give away that their Martial arts training is not working for them. Say what? That is right ! What happened to all this discipline they told you about. You see,the ability to use your discipline is one of the biggest benefits of martial arts training. Conquering yourself and not giving in to your superficial wants and desires is what happens when you apply your martial art training. How? Well the same way that you had been trying to achieve executing the most effective throw until you could do it . That's how! Willing it to happen until you could make it happen.
The focus that it takes, attention, the dedication, coordination, perseverance and week after week you were at the Dojo applying all of that. This mindfulness is a direct by product of all that hard work. So the same way that you approach your techniques is the same way you should approach all of the things that you are involved with. Especially your health. It is the source of everything you are!
It is a shame to see students that have been in a dojo for a while and are very good at technique, but do not apply their skill in other areas in their lives. Your discipline is your strength, especially as your body gets old and can no longer do good technique. When you get older is when you must rely the most on your martial art training. Focus, patience, perseverance, attitude, etc. You are going to need those skills. So take a look at your training and be honest, is it working for you?
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